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ADHD in Children – ADHD & Homework

Conflicts over homework are common with children and teens who have ADD / ADHD.

adhd in childrenGiven that students with ADD/ ADHD are often disorganized, forgetful, distractible, careless and lack persistence, it is not surprising that homework time leads to child and parental distress, a deterioration of the parent/child relationship, and eventual academic underachievement.

 

 

The following points may provide useful when assisting children or teens with ADHD in completing their homework:

★ Organizing information and note taking
★ Providing a quiet environment
★ Maintaining a routine
★ Break homework into parts
★ Manage time and set goals
★ Rewarding
★ Consequences
★ Communicating
★ Seek professional help

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How to Help Someone with ADHD Make it all the Way to the Finish Line

Goal directed persistence is a core weakness for individuals with ADHD.  Reaching long term goals can be problematic.  They have difficulty sustaining their attention and delaying gratification in order to reach a future goal.  The excitement and pleasure of some more immediate event present right here and now cannot be resisted.  The ADHD individual knows what they should do, but just doesn’t do it.  They become distracted, side tracked, lose motivation or change their plans.  These difficulties are frustrating for the ADHD individual and for their loved ones and can lead to underachievement, low self-esteem and depression.

Goal setting is an important first step needed to help an ADHD individual persist toward a future goal. Goals can include attaining a good grade on a test, completing a project, maintaining a neat room or work station, or completing a long term work project.  When an individual writes down, verbalizes and commits to a future goal, he or she is more likely to reach the goal.

The following are some strategies to help someone stay on track and maintain persistence and motivation in order to reach a future goal:

-Break tasks into parts and identify specific behaviors needed to reach each part.

-Commit to completing the specific behaviors intended.

-In advance, say out loud the exact behavior that you plan to do.  For example, “I will write my homework in my planner.” or “I will study for a half hour after work/school”.

-Reward yourself when you do follow through with the committed to behavior.  Parents, spouses and loved ones can reinforce the completion of a behavior by using praise.

-Externalize cues.  Write the goals down and post them at the point of performance.  This will create an environmental trigger to cue you to perform the behavior.

-Start with easier goals to create opportunities for success.

-Intersperse less boring or challenging activities with the intended behavior.

-Seek help, tutoring or education if there is a skill deficit and you lack the exact knowledge of how to perform a particular behavior.

-Limit distractions in the environment where the behavior is to take place as much as possible.

-Learn from successes and failures.  Review why you did or did not meet a goal to develop interventions for the future.


-An ADHD coach can help set up and fine tune strategies to help you reach your future goals.

ADHD Coaching is available online, by phone , and in-person.

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What Can Parents with Daughters of ADHD do to Help Their Daughter Thrive Socially

The first step to helping your daughter thrive socially is to carefully evaluate exactly why your child is having her social difficulty.  Is she breaking personally space, having tantrums, interrupting, not waiting her turn,  missing social cues due to inattention, annoying other children with off task or silly behavior?  Or is she socially shy or insecure?  The intervention will depend on your conceptualization of the problem.  So first investigate.  Talk to teachers.  Talk to your child.  Observe.  Once the source of your daughter’s difficulty is found a skills training model can be useful.  Provide opportunities to practice the behavior you want (ie waiting ones turn) and use a great deal of positive re-enforcement.  An ADHD child will require more structure, more cues, more immediate feedback and larger re-enforcement than a typical child.  Make sure your child has opportunities for success. Find her strength, encourage them and provide opportunities to express them.  Limit distractions as much as possible and attempt to place your daughter in an environment which will minimize or social difficulties (ie having only one child over at a time and playing a game or in a setting that minimizes your child’s difficulties).

How do we get people to take their daughters for diagnosis earlier?

If your daughter is struggling socially, behaviorally, emotionally or academically, familiarize yourself with the symptoms of ADHD.  If you have suspicions your child may have ADHD seek a professional ADHD evaluation.

ADHD Coaching is available online, by phone , and in-person.

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What can Parents with Daughters of ADHD do to Help Their Daughter Thrive at School/Academically?

Obtain a thorough evaluation by a professional with experience diagnosing and treating ADHD

Education:

Educate yourself as much as you can about ADHD and its
management. Read books, talk to professionals, and research on the internet.

Medication:

Stimulant medication (methylfenadate, amphetamines) and nonstimulant
medications (atomoxetine) have been shown to be effective. Seek a
qualified physician to evaluate use of medication.

Parent-Training/Coaching:

Parent-training or coaching is an affective treatment for ADHD.

Parenttraining/coaching helps decrease parent/child conflict, child defiance, and disruptive behaviors.

Parent-training/coachingalso helps reduce parent stress and household stress in general. Parenting strategies includecontingency management, effective use of commands, transition planning, positive attending, behavior
management plans, and various monitoring programs.

Psychotherapy:

Psychotherapy is helpful for children, adolescents and adults by helping them gain a better
understanding of the nature of ADHD, its management, and how it has influenced who they are today.
It is also useful to help with medication compliance.

Social-skills Training:

Accommodations and environmental changes.  Some strategies to help your daughter with ADHD achieve include:

-Organizing information and note taking: Students with ADHD
require extra assistance to organize and prioritize their homework.
At home, parents can help organize and prioritize assignments and
record important dates onto a home calendar.
-Providing a quiet environment: Make sure that the homework environment is quiet with
minimal distractions.
-Maintaining a routine: Routine brings order and order assists in the facilitation of focus.
Homework should be completed at the same time each day in the same quiet environment.
-Break into parts: The academic rule of thumb is that there should be 10 minutes
of homework added on for each grade level, i.e., 4th graders should be able to handle
40 minutes of homework each night. However, for a child with ADHD, 40 minutes may
be too long to sustain attention on one given subject area. Therefore, homework should
be ‘chunked’ into smaller segments.
-Manage time and set goals: After helping your child break their homework into smaller
segments or chunks, set time completion goals and accuracy goals. Use a timer to
externalize the time cue and provide the additional structure.
-Rewarding: Use positive reinforcement. Keep your attention focused on positive behavior. Set clear reward for homework completion and even for completion of each homework
‘chunk’ discussed above.
-Consequences: Adhere to the plan and set up realistic consequences for not completing the
homework.
-Communicating: Communication between the teacher, parent, and child is critical. Establish
a weekly or even daily report card which reports missing assignments, test grades, and up
coming projects and tests; and

Seek professional help: Know when it is time to ask for assistance from professionals

ADHD Coaching is available online, by phone , and in-person.